Today we celebrate four years of marriage! On December 13th, 2015 we stood in front of our family, our sweet boy, our friends, and God and promised to continue to do all the things that brought us there. Holding hands we vowed to pour into each other, to accept each other, and to never stop working to make our relationship a safe haven. Four years later we are still holding hands and creating a life together that we never dreamed possible. Every day I wake up to a life filled with love and encouragement and it all started with a checking account. I will never forget the first time I…